An Open Letter To My Future Girlfriend

Hey everyone! How are you guys? It’s been a while since I wrote an article in this blog. Truth be told, I’ve been quite busy with certain things such as my Saturday classes for the Registered Financial Planner’s Program. Yup! You read that right. I’m finally pursuing one of my goals in the Financial Industry. Soon enough, I’ll be writing more articles about personal finance, so just stay tuned and subscribe to this blog after reading this post. 🙂

Anyways, enough of the updates about me, I know you’ve clicked on this article because of the title. And yes! The title is correct. Today’s post is not about Personal Finance or Entrepreneurship. It’s actually about something that’s quite a popular topic especially for young people out there. Today, I’ll be sharing a simple letter that’s been circling on my mind for the past few days. It’s an open letter to my future girlfriend. <3

Dear Future Girlfriend,

How are you? Today I’m writing this letter for you as I know that it’ll be something that I’ll want to share with you when we finally meet. Did you know that during the times that I was searching for you, I’ve been hurt by people whom I thought was finally you? There was even a time that I almost gave up on believing that true love really exist. It’s just amazing that as the days, weeks, months and even years passed by, I started to realize that these experiences are actually just events that are preparing me for the time that I’ll eventually meet you. And right now, I want you to pay close attention to everything that you’ll be reading next. Because the following things are actually the things that I want you to remember.

I believe that the most amazing relationships always start at friendship. I want to act silly, hang out and spend time with you. I want to travel the world with you; be able to talk to you comfortably, and simply spend time with you in praising and praying to God. I want you to feel that you are my best friend and not just my girlfriend. I want us to be open about each other’s life, and I don’t want things to revolve to just between the “two of us”. I want our relationship to extend to different aspects of our lives, including our friends, family, and most of all “God”.

I believe that our relationship will really last long as we both learn to accept the good and bad things about each other. Always remember, despite everything that I’ve mentioned above, I want to make it clear that I don’t want you to change a single thing about yourself just to meet my expectations. Changing your identity and becoming someone completely different is not what I want.

Take it easy! Chill out! I already like you, and I like you for who you truly are. I am looking forward to the time that we finally meet. I don’t know, maybe one of these days, we will. I trust that God will lead us to each other at the right time, at the right place, and at the right circumstances. We’ll find each other eventually, and when that time comes, I know, you’ll prove to me that you are definitely worth the long wait.

I hope and pray that you’re still out there and we will meet in the most unexpected and marvelous way.


Your Future Boyfriend

P.S. I’m attaching this short video clip that I saw while browsing the internet. I’m quite sure that you’ll like its message. I know, because I did. 🙂

“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

1 Corinthians 13:13 NIV

Photo credit: Sunset at Ocean Shores, WA via photopin (license)Love within the light. [44/365] via photopin (license)

Video credit: Power Of Positivity

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  • Kat

    Maybe your future girlfriend is already someone you know. naks! you started with “the most amazing relationship start with friendship”. Look around your circle. She might just be waiting for you to say something. heheeh I am playing cupid. 🙂 -katrina centeno

    • Jeypi Kyu

      Uhm, I don’t think she’s already in my circle already.. But if she is.. I’ll be waiting for the time that God reveals to me that it’s finally her.. 🙂

  • Your future girlfriend would be lucky. I’m sure she’ll love the sweet letter you made now.

  • Maybe, you’re eyeing someone now but you’re afraid to approach her? Well, it seems that you are opening yourself in knowing you in advance? But I like your style as a writer because what you perceived within yourself showed through your thoughts or what to expect to the girl of your dream.

  • That’s very romantic. I’m sure when the day comes that you find this girl, you’ll know that she’s the one. It’s great to start out as friends and then work your way up to lovers. The video is a nice touch!

  • Very well written and heartfelt letter. Any girl would be lucky to be at the receiving end of it. I pray that God leads you and the right girl on the path that will bring the two of you together. With God in the center of your relationship, your foundation is like no other.

    • Jeypi Kyu

      Thanks momi roxi.. 🙂 will be praying for you as well. 🙂 God bless!

  • dmhyf

    Any God-fearing girl would be interested to find out more about you after they read this letter of yours. You may have a lot of girls lining up waiting for you to notice them. 🙂 – Fred

    • Jeypi Kyu

      Haha! I don’t think so.. Thanks for your comment though.. It made me more confident about myself. 🙂

  • This is very beautiful. It speaks from the heart. How blessed this woman who will receive this letter. And the video is so cute!

  • Sam

    So touching that you thought of your GF way ahead. It’s great to remind yourself also, once you meet her, to read this letter. 🙂

  • Beautiful post. For everyone reading this & viewing this video, if there was one person in your mind as you went through this post, that person is the love of your life..

  • Tiffany Yong

    It’s nice to see something different and personal for a change… makes me feel like writing one for my future boyfriend… 🙂

  • This was sweet. I agree that great relationships start with friendship. Beautiful.

  • I hope you find the girl who you’ll give all these to. You sound really nice, and whoever she may be, she’ll be lucky to have you

  • Charm Gamboa

    It’s nice that their are still people who’d love to be in a relationship that started as friends and you’re right God should be the center of your relationship. Hope you’ll find your future girlfriend 🙂

  • Kylie Wenn

    So romantic.. Hope your future gf will become ur current gf soon!~ Nice letter~

  • Shubhada Bhide

    Good to see that you can have a variety of posts other than finance. I m sure your future girlfriend will read this letter from wherever she is.

  • 😀 I used to do this as well when I was younger haha!

  • Hoping that your future girlfriend can read this. Who knows, you might meet her with this post.

  • Pal Raine

    How romantic of you. I’ll pray to God that He will give you your future girlfriend now!

  • Karmela Mirriam Ebreo

    Love is a two-way street. Accepting each other’s strengths and weaknesses is really important. <3

  • Hopefully, you will meet that future girlfriend really soon. You better start making a lot of friends right now because she is out there and do not have too much expectations because sometimes the perfect person is way different from your imagination.

  • Ericson Felipe

    Haha. Nice one! Hoping that someone will notice this and send you an email sooner. For now, enjoy the perks of being a single. 😀

  • WOW!!! How romantic!! Hope you meet your future girlfriend really soon!! 🙂

  • Denice Joyce Diaz

    Awww. 🙂 This is such a sweet letter. The girl will surely be lucky to have you in her life. 🙂

  • Jaimie Felix

    You are so sweet – and such a sweet letter. whoever the girl will be, she sure will surely be lucky to have you in her life. 🙂 Hope you meet the girl pretty soon,

  • Arrianne Guzman

    1 Corinthians 13:13 is one of my favorite Bible verses. This is such a cute letter. Hope you’ll meet her really soon and for sure, she’ll be touched to read this 🙂

  • How romantic you are!! Just pray and God will give you what you want! Hugs!

  • That’s so sweet!!!! Kenekeleg ako!!!! Whoever the girl will be, sure she will be so lucky to have you.

  • Lea Malanum

    I love open letters. I hope you could do another open letter for when you finally meet that girl. 🙂 Cheers to our journey on finding the one!